Minor Lesbian Girls Get Kicked Off Bus

On June 8, two teenage girls were kicked off a public bus for kissing. The bus driver called the girls "sickos" and allegedly smacked one of the girls.

The teenage girls who are 14 years old, were on their way to the Sexual Minority Youth Resource Center.

The Youth Resource Center states they have been "[c]reating safety and support for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and questioning (LGBTQQ) youth in Oregon since 1998, through youth empowerment, community building, education and direct services."

A quote from a minor on their website talks about the impact SMYRC has had on their life. "SMYRC has given me a safe place where I can go, not having to worry about people calling me names or telling me that who I am is wrong. In all honesty, SMYRC has saved my life."

But apparently getting to SMYRC is a little more challenging for some.

The TriMet bus line in Portland, Oregon, regularly transports youth passengers to the Rec Center. One of the teenagers involved in the incident relies on the TriMet system to transport her to and from school on a daily basis.

The TriMet policy, according to a spokesperson, is to never eject minors and other vulnerable persons from the bus.

On June 20th, The Advocate reported the TriMet transit officials issued a formal apology to the teenagers and their families.

The driver is being held "responsible" - although TriMet policy forbids public disclosure of any disciplinary actions.

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Marriage Rights - Do We Really Need Them?

I have been involved in numerous conversations related to the Benefits of Marriage. People often ask me why LGBT couples would actually want the right to get married. I suppose to straight people, and maybe to our society in general, marriage seems like a commitment between two people, one accompanied by a piece of paper, which really amounts to not much more than that - a formal commitment and a piece of paper.

And so I suppose the push-back I've heard on the issue of Gay Marriage stems from a lack of understanding of rights provided to couples through the Institution of Marriage.

Afterall, gay and lesbian couples can have a formal commitment ceremony. So what's the big deal about the piece of paper?

Recently someone asked me for a list of the benefits marriage affords to straight couples. In the recesses of my brain, I seemed to remember hearing there were some 100 benefits afforded to married people. After a quick search, I found out I was WAY wrong.

There aren't 100 or so benefits of marriage ....

There are nearly 1500 benefits!!!

In 1996, there were more than a thousand federal laws in which a couple's marital status would provide them with benefits, rights or privileges not accessible to unmarried couples.

Each state provides another 400+ benefits, rights and privileges to married couples.

So can same-sex couples live without marriage benefits? Sure. But it seems a little unfair to reserve those 1500 benefits, rights and privileges just for straight people, don't you think?

Evil Is ....

Heard an interesting quote today ....

Evil is not a Cultural Condition ... it's a Human Condition.

NJ Elementary School Shows Video Depicting Gay Families - Parents Get Nasty

There is a huge controversy going on in Evesham, NJ right now. Turns out the school district decided to show the award-winning film, That's a Family!, to 3rd graders. The film was intended to be part of the District's commitment to diversity, which includes showing diverse families as part of their mission to be inclusive of all children in the district. It has, however, turned into displays of bad behavior and, frankly, a lot of intolerance on the parts of many parents in the district.

First we need to be really clear - we have not viewed the film in question. We have reviewed articles and various commentary on the subject. Our views are based on what we have read and clips we have seen of the video.

The School District released a comment on its website which states in part, "...the video does not discuss marriage or advocate any particular lifestyle. As part of our Health curriculum, the Evesham Township School District does include teaching of the many varieties of families that represent our community. The concept is taught from the perspective of accepting and respecting all of our children. Its main focus is to encourage children to understand the diversity of family backgrounds, and to note that the roles and responsibilities in families are similar. This unit aligns our curriculum with the state of New Jersey's Core Curriculum Content Standards in Comprehensive Health and Physical Education."

But apparently, parents have missed the point. While many types of families were depicted in the film, it's the lesbian and gay families that have caused quite a stir in the community and seems to have landed the District smack-dab in the middle of a national debate on the issue of same-sex marriage.

The Philadelphia Inquirer reported earlier this week that after parents viewed the video, the ensuing four-hour meeting "frequently erupted into shouting, accusations and name-calling." According to first-hand accounts of parents who attended the meeting, the general feeling was the same - parents behaved badly, were acting as poor role-models for their children and epitomized the need for such a video to be shown.